Wednesday, April 05, 2006

Another Missed Visit

Wednesday I headed down to DCFS for the normal visit from 10-12. At 9:50, when I was just 4 blocks away from DCFS, the scoial worker called to say that the parents weren't coming in today. But since I was so close, and he hadn't seen the baby since March 14, he said to come down and we would visit about the case. So we spent about an hour talking, and I feel much better about him (the sw) now. When he first took over the case, and I wan't sure what to think - he didn't seem too invested in the situation. But now I know how he really feels. He told me that this is usually the time when the parents start to show their true colors - it's been 2-1/2 months since they lost their baby, and they may be getting tired of all the requirements that they need to meet. He also said that maybe they really don't want to parent this child, but felt they had to "show a good fight" in order to not feel guilty about the state taking their baby away. He said he'd have a nice long talk with them. He said he has been successful in the past with getting parents to do willing relinquishment, and that may be were this case is headed. We're supposed to have another scheduled visit on Monday, but the sw said to wait and talk with him Monday morning about whether to bring Little Guy down or not. So, for now, we just wait, and pray. Maybe this will be over before sooner than we thought!

3 comments:

Julie said...

That is GREAT news for ya'll!! I hope it goes smoothly! Yea for the little guy!!!

No Longer In Crisis said...

So glad you really got to talk with the sw, and that things are looking like they are headed in the right direction for Little Guy and your family. I pray the Bioparents are lead to make responsible decisions - if just once!

Michelle said...

Good luck - that is basically how it happened with our daughter. The biomom finally came to terms with the fact that sje couldn't parent this child, she couldn't do what needed to be done and that the level of lost trust was too high to overcome. She TPRed for our daughter, did a private adoption to a distant family member for the middle child and kept her youngest.

Recently the bio mom who we talk with through mail, has mentioned something about being tricked but in this case, she wasn't.

I'm adding you to my blogroll if you don't mind. Good luck!